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I made a couple of mistakes, but I didn't want to have to reset it, so I just left them in there. For instance, I have a green "I've been there" pin for rape and a purple "I want to go there" pin for rape because I didn't see there was a rape fantasy land in another place. In this case, I've been to "attempted but not completed rape" but I don't particularly want to go there again, but I *do* want to visit "fantasy rape".

tacit has updated the map but not the interactive map, so I'm just going to leave it as it is until the interactive map gets updated. Since I'll have to do this all over again anyway, I can fix the mistakes in the next version.

I'm also thinking of adding this to my Sexual History and Health Disclosure procedure, along with the History form and the clinic paperwork. I think it'll add a little bit of fun and be less dry and technical (and hopefully less off-putting).

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I'm pleasantly surprised to see you share a few of my fetishes that I wouldn't have thought you shared. They're not common so it's always nice to know it's not just me LOL.

I'm a bit surprised at a few of your pins, tho, as I thought from a previous discussion they were places you didn't want to go. However, they could be taken a couple of different ways so next time I see you I must remember to ask. :-)

I'm curious - if you are willing to mention them in an open journal, which ones? If not, IM me later

The one I was interested to see you shared was puppy play, tho I don't know if you're looking at it from the position of being the puppy or owning the puppy (I just suggested to Franklin that he add different pin colors for give/receive).
That's not a terrifically common one.

The other thing I'd want to talk to you about in person because I might be confused but I thought it was a health issue thing. Could be all in my head tho. So I'll ask you next time we talk.

I'm only just beginning to be curious about owning the puppy. I was never interested before and couldn't understand why anyone would be, but I briefly had a partner last year who joked about it just often enough in just the right way that it now has me considering it. Unfortunately, he is no longer a partner and I don't know anyone who has that same mix of qualities that made the idea attractive.

I, also, thought a give/receive differentiation would be nice on the map.

A lady friend of mine is very interested in it.
We wanted to explore it together in the past but issues kept us from it.
We're discussing doing it now, when we can arrange to be together.
She'll look cute on a leash. :-D